What your pick says about you
The man you said Yes to has soft features, a slight frame and a gentle face, and does not seem to push himself forward. Maybe there are no fireworks. But next to him, your breathing slows down. Your instinct chooses peace over excitement.
People who pick this type tend to want a relationship where they do not have to try so hard. Being able to sit in silence without worrying, having someone who just stays with you on tiring days. You may already know how comfortable that is.
You might fall for someone who…
- spends his days off at home, making coffee and reading
- nobody has ever seen angry
- can listen to you until the end without interrupting
- quietly makes you something warm when you have a cold
Why this type attracts you
Soft features, a slim body and a calm expression say he is not intimidating and that you are safe. His nice-guy air turns into a feeling that you can be yourself in front of him. Your instinct is keeping a close eye on someone you could stay with for a long time.
A few things to watch for
Gentle people rarely say what they want. Their real preferences may be hidden behind their politeness. Offer him choices now and then to draw out what he really feels.