What your pick says about you
Your instinct chose a man with bold features and a big body who does not say much but looks kind. Rather than stepping forward to stand out, he quietly supports from behind. You are drawn to the reliability of someone who shows his feelings through actions, not words.
People who pick this type want someone they can safely lean on. Rather than loud promises to protect you, you are weak for the quiet kindness of noticing that he already carried the heavy bags.
You might fall for someone who…
- helps you move or rearrange your room before you even ask
- gets embarrassed and changes the subject when you thank him
- turns out to be a good cook and shares his leftovers with you
- never raises his voice, even in an argument
Why this type attracts you
Bold features and a sturdy body feel dependable, and a calm, kind air feels like he could hold everything. Strong, but not scary. Your instinct is choosing someone who looks ready to catch you with both arms.
A few things to watch for
Quiet people also tend to keep their frustrations to themselves. Asking now and then, "Is anything bothering you?" will help the relationship last even longer.